Argov Sherry Quotes & Sayings

It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you'll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute. — Sherry Argov

The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time. — Sherry Argov

The nice girl thinks she's giving up something to get something better in return. She gives up control over her own life. When the time comes for her to get what she expected, she winds up disappointed. In addition to being empty-handed, she's depleted. — Sherry Argov

If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early. — Sherry Argov

If you smother him, he'll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom. — Sherry Argov

Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard. — Sherry Argov

When a nice girl overcompensates,
her behavior says, What I have to offer isn't enough,
and who I am isn't enough. — Sherry Argov

When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are. — Sherry Argov

The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be. — Sherry Argov

When you tell a man how you feel, most of the time he doesn't understand what you're talking about. You'll probably just confuse and frustrate him. — Sherry Argov

Anything a person chases in life runs away. — Sherry Argov

She knows what she wants but won't compromise herself to get it. But she's feminine, like "Steel Magnolia"
flowery on the outside, steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her own advantage. It isn't that she takes undue advantage of men, because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn't: a presence of mind because she isn't swept away by a romantic fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when it is necessary. — Sherry Argov

Relationship Principle 10
You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn't respect your opinion, he won't respect you. — Sherry Argov

If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that. — Sherry Argov

Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he's with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun. — Sherry Argov

Don't let the advertisements on TV be your guide. The woman who sustains a man's interest is not the one who feels confident because of a particular miniskirt, a belly ring, or a black dress with plunging neckline. A bitch doesn't rely on these things to feel good about herself. She relies on who she is as a woman. — Sherry Argov

Intelligent women make the mistake of assuming that if they hold a higher degree, they can hold their own in a political debate, and they have a good understanding of mid-caps — Sherry Argov

Expressing yourself when he takes you for granted doesn't work. — Sherry Argov

The woman who is too nice senses that he "needs her" and she runs to his aid like a Red Cross rescue missionary. And she gives - blindly. — Sherry Argov

If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem.
Why? You always come before they do, that's why. — Sherry Argov

Regardless of how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain his respect. Appearance may pull him in, but it is your independence that will keep him turned on. — Sherry Argov

Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else's drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don't get what you want. — Sherry Argov

Adopt the attitude I refuse to walk around like an exposed raw nerve. I've made up my mind that I'm going to be upbeat, positive, and I won't believe what other people tell me about myself. — Sherry Argov

Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact". — Sherry Argov

When a woman is secure with herself, she isn't afraid to define herself and defy public opinion. She has her own look. Her own style. Her own charisma. Her own brand of charm. A man wants something he doesn't see every day. Not in terms of a redhead versus a blonde. He wants the rare woman who can think for herself. — Sherry Argov

Men can shift gears from romantic to practical - and so can the bitch. — Sherry Argov

When a woman is too nice and will jump through hoops: It invites bad behavior. — Sherry Argov

When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it's the only kind of relationship worth having. — Sherry Argov

As soon as a manhas his guard up. he will not fall in love or get attached the only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first. — Sherry Argov

It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt. — Sherry Argov

Once you start laughing, you start healing. — Sherry Argov

You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face — Sherry Argov

It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think. — Sherry Argov

He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. — Sherry Argov

Relationship Principle 11
It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not. — Sherry Argov

When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there. — Sherry Argov

Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't. — Sherry Argov

Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turnd on by a woman who cares about her own pleasures as well. — Sherry Argov

Sophia Loren said, Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical. — Sherry Argov

Relationship Principle 5
Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself. — Sherry Argov

The person who is least dependent on the outcome of the relationship will automatically draw the other person in. — Sherry Argov

There is no way to hold your own in a relationship and simultaneously accept rude behavior. — Sherry Argov

It is important to be able to do stuff alone and not have her give you a hard time about it. — Sherry Argov

When it comes to believing in yourself, put your eye on the mark and don't blink. If you have a goal, a dream, or an aspiration ... believe in yourself while you are on the way to your destination, and you will have already arrived. — Sherry Argov

When you are happy, you are sexy — Sherry Argov

Men are selfish and don't think about anything else but them self. pg. 45 — Sherry Argov

There's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or strugle a little bit to get. — Sherry Argov

If the sex was too easy to get,
it was not that great. — Sherry Argov

The bitch does not stop moving to her own rhythm. This, in and of itself, prevents her from becoming off-balance like a nice girl who abandons her routine. — Sherry Argov

Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself. — Sherry Argov

Men tend to fall in love when they feel like they are cherished or revered as the 'man' in the relationship. — Sherry Argov

One of the things women have to get out of their mindset is the notion of what a bitch is. A bitch is nice. She's sweet as a Georgia peach. She smiles and she is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man. — Sherry Argov

When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that's when he won't want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy. — Sherry Argov

Talking about the "relationship" too much takes away the element of the "unknown" and thus the mystery. — Sherry Argov

If you chase him in a black nightie, first he'll have sex with you ...
and then he'll run. — Sherry Argov

In a relationship of any kind, if one person feels the other person isn't bringing anything to the table, he or she will begin to disrespect that person. — Sherry Argov

He perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover. — Sherry Argov

With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most. — Sherry Argov

Overcompensating or being too eager to please will lessen a man's
respect; it will give the kiss of death to his attraction, — Sherry Argov

If you're 30 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you. — Sherry Argov

The nice girl loses an important protective mechanism when she assumes that life is fair, or that Prince Charming will always protect her. The smart fox is not governed by wishful thinking or the hope of a fantasy outcome, like Cinderella. Despite appearances, she trusts herself to watch her OWN back instead of giving a man the responsibility of doing it for her. — Sherry Argov

More than anything else, he watches to see if you'll be too emotionally dependent on him. — Sherry Argov

Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves — Sherry Argov

He should accept me as I am! says the woman who is too nice.
Accept you? Oh no, sister. Slap yourself. He should want you
madly. Acceptance has nothing to do with it. He accepts a
doormat. But he desires his dreamgirl. — Sherry Argov

Throughout life, people will try to shake your faith in yourself. When this happens, remind yourself that the only way they can succeed is if you allow it. When you walk down the street of life, always hold your head high and keep walking. Don't ever let anyone shake your faith in yourself, because that's really all that you have. — Sherry Argov

Let's replace "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you" with "Do unto others, after they show you they are worthy. — Sherry Argov

A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and cannot be made to feel bad about herself. — Sherry Argov

The best advice I ever heard is, don't take anyone else's advice." There's power in this because it puts you in the conductor's seat, right at "the controls" in your life. It doesn't mean you should stop seeking information or outside input, it just means that you're the one driving. You choose your own destination. — Sherry Argov

He'll do what you like just long enough to get what he wants. — Sherry Argov

Don't learn the tricks of the trade. Learn the trade. — Sherry Argov

If you want to control your emotions, you have to control your thoughts. — Sherry Argov

Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him. — Sherry Argov

Standing up for yourself doesn't always involve verbal confrontation. Sometimes it's about not wasting energy on people who are negative. — Sherry Argov

UncondiTional love is a beauTiful Thing. JusT be sure To
give iT after your conditions have been meT :P — Sherry Argov

If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is. — Sherry Argov

Men don't respond to words. They respond to no contact. — Sherry Argov

Women tend to love men in their presence, while men tend to love women in their absence. — Sherry Argov

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way. — Sherry Argov

When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you dont nag, he deals with the problem. — Sherry Argov

Crystal said, "Okay, sweetie. I'm on my way. Give me five minutes to put on a garter belt under my raincoat. I'll be there in forty minutes." She also asked Brett to wait downstairs for her in the rain with an umbrella, so she wouldn't get drenched walking to the front of his apartment complex. He waited and waited and waited. Three hours later, it occurred to him like a stunning revelation: No booty cometh. — Sherry Argov

And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it. — Sherry Argov

When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless — Sherry Argov

The biggest turn-on for a man is knowing that he is in love with a woman he can really count on, who will really be there for him. — Sherry Argov

When a woman acts as though she's capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything. — Sherry Argov

For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun. — Sherry Argov

If she's too predictable because you talk about the relationship all the time instead of going out and having one, he'll get bored quickly. — Sherry Argov

Relationship Principle 1
In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is. — Sherry Argov

The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice — Sherry Argov

If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point. — Sherry Argov

Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them. — Sherry Argov

Correcting the situation or by not allowing the person to have access to you. — Sherry Argov

The nice girl meets a guy and acts like she joined a cult. In the beginning, a guy might ask her what she likes. The nice girl makes the mistake of shrugging her shoulders and saying: 'I like anything you like.' — Sherry Argov

Many women talk a lot out of nervousness-which is something that men will often perceive as insecurity. — Sherry Argov

Men control the world, but women control the men. — Sherry Argov

The most attractive quality of all is dignity. — Sherry Argov

A beautiful woman can make herself
look ugly in the eyes of a man if she is very insecure. — Sherry Argov

Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you. — Sherry Argov

The bitch is an empowered woman who derives tremendous strength from the ability to be an independent thinker, particularly in a world that still teaches women how to be self-abnegating. This woman doesn't live someone else's standards, only her own. — Sherry Argov

It's true that men say, "A man's love comes from his stomach". But there's nothing in this statement that requires you to cook the food before it ends up in his stomach. — Sherry Argov

One
man's "ugly" is another man's "beautiful. — Sherry Argov