Thomas Crum Quotes & Sayings

When conflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win. — Thomas Crum

It is hard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because we are not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creating a new "pearl" as we are in being right. — Thomas Crum

Conflict isn't negative, it just is. — Thomas Crum

What would it be like if you lived each day, each breath, as a work of art in progress? Imagine that you are a masterpiece unfolding each second of every day, a work of art taking form with every breath. — Thomas Crum

It is very difficult to apply the old Indian adage 'Do not judge another until you have walked a mile in his moccasins,' unless you get out of your own moccasins first. — Thomas Crum

Instead of seeing the rug being pulled from under us, we can learn to dance on the shifting carpet. — Thomas Crum

Embracing conflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration can lead to growth and fascination. — Thomas Crum

Our lives are not dependent on whether or not we have conflict. It is what we do with conflict that makes the difference. — Thomas Crum

Change does not take time - it takes commitment. — Thomas Crum

Conflict can be seen as a gift of energy, in which neither side loses and a new dance is created. — Thomas Crum

The quality of our lives depends not on whether or not we have conflicts, but on how we respond to them. — Thomas Crum

Being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view to a viewing point - a higher, more expansive place, from which you can see both sides. — Thomas Crum

The number one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain their self-esteem. Resolving conflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment and appreciation of differences. — Thomas Crum