Rudolf Dreikurs Quotes & Sayings

Man does not see reality as it is, but only as he perceives it, and his perception may be mistaken or biased. — Rudolf Dreikurs

The complaints which anyone voices against his mate indicate exactly the qualities which stimulated attraction before marriage. — Rudolf Dreikurs

Perfection never exists in reality, but only in our dreams. — Rudolf Dreikurs

We cannot protect our children from life. Therefore, it is essential that we prepare them for it. — Rudolf Dreikurs

Whoever alters a person's expectations changes his behavior. — Rudolf Dreikurs

A child needs encouragement like a plant needs water. — Rudolf Dreikurs

We can change our whole life and attitude of the people around us simply by changing ourselves.. — Rudolf Dreikurs

The wish to gain complete possession of somebody is expressed most plainly by jealousy. Jealousy is never a sign of love. It only indicates fear of not being able to hold another person. — Rudolf Dreikurs

When children are allowed to help make family decisions, they tend to be much more supportive and happier with family life. Also when allowed to help make rules, they will follow them much closer than if rules are forced on them. All these add up to a happier home for all. — Rudolf Dreikurs

A misbehaving child, is a discouraged child — Rudolf Dreikurs

When a child makes a mistake or fails to accomplish a certain goal, we must avoid any word or action which indicates that we consider him a failure. 'Too bad that didn't work.' 'I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.' We need to separate the deed from the doer. — Rudolf Dreikurs

Children need encouragement like plants need water — Rudolf Dreikurs

How many things would be different in everyone's surroundings if we hadn't lived? How a good word many have encouraged some fellow and did something to him that he did it differently and better than he would otherwise. And through him somebody else was saved. How much we contribute to each other, how powerful we each are-and don't know it. — Rudolf Dreikurs

A great many people fall in love with or feel attracted to a person who offers the least possibility of a harmonious union. — Rudolf Dreikurs