Neil LaBute Quotes & Sayings

Everyone has a story. — Neil LaBute

It's funny how that comes up, because sometimes I'll write something and I'll think, I don't know if that's a film or a play, and then other things I feel very strongly about them just being plays - they feel very theatrical to me. — Neil LaBute

Just in the past few years - since I've been making movies, which isn't a very long time - you now have a culture that is fascinated and informed about the box office in a way that sometimes filmmakers weren't even. — Neil LaBute

But for me, it feels like a natural extension of what I've been doing: exploring relationships. Here you have two relationships and we can explore how difficult it is for people to be together. — Neil LaBute

First I would probably place men at the bottom of the food chain. On a grander scale, I would say they're reacting to change. Feminism has got to be part of that. — Neil LaBute

And I've got some screenplays and plays ready to dip into when I need to. — Neil LaBute

We humans are a fairly barbarous bunch. — Neil LaBute

With In the Company of Men, the misogynist label stuck early and firmly. In the end, it probably did hurt the film a bit, because getting women into the theaters was difficult. — Neil LaBute

People think my work is therapeutic. I don't see it that way. It's not like I'm saving money from a weekly therapy visit by writing down my life. — Neil LaBute

My best male friend is my best friend until he crosses me. We're all protective of the self. — Neil LaBute

I will say that the idea of a woman being deceptive came from that original discussion with critics and reporters about if woman could do that kind of thing. Evelyn, herself, grew out of the discussions about how capable women are of deceit and lying and manipulation. — Neil LaBute

You start as an audience member and create a world you're interested in, and then you move into the telling of those stories, bringing what has interested you as an audience member. — Neil LaBute

There is a lot of absurdity sometimes, not just in Mormonism but often in other religions that want to pretend that no bad happens in their church, rather than taking care of what bad does happen. — Neil LaBute

Everyone has a little bit of Howard and Chad in them. I think there's Christine in all men as well. — Neil LaBute

I make movies I want to see. — Neil LaBute

Sitting in an automobile was where I first remember understanding how drama works ... Hidden in the back seat of a sedan, I quickly realized how deep the chasm or intense the claustrophobia could be inside your average family car. — Neil LaBute

My business is can I create a world that's possible and could happen? I think that's the only thing that I have to do, and I think that I have done that each time. — Neil LaBute

Unrequited love is always a great thing. — Neil LaBute

I wanted to make these people real, not like they were in a painting. Like these are people who don't know they're in a period movie. Those concerns are incredibly immediate. — Neil LaBute

Movies are - all I've found is that they're just tougher and tougher to make. — Neil LaBute

And with Aaron, I'd have to find a reason not to work with him. — Neil LaBute

I think Christine and Chad are on the opposite extremes of the spectrum. Christine is a model victim, and Chad is a model perpetrator, and Howard is closer to the middle. — Neil LaBute

If we put the camera on ourselves, our friends and neighbors, we'll come up with some scary stuff. — Neil LaBute

I'm saying the American way is to overcome, to conquer, to come out on top. And we do it by spending and eating and screwing our women harder than anyone else. That's all I'm saying. — Neil LaBute

You're crossing the ocean on a wooden ship. One of the boards rots, so you replace it with another that you've stored on your hold. It is still the same ship? Most people will agree that it is. But what if, bit by bit, as you make your journey, your ships sustains more and more damage, so that by the time you reach your destination, you have substituted each piece with its counterpart and not a single piece remains unreplaced. Now is it the same ship? Why or why not? How much of a thing is its pattern and how much its physical material? I was fascinated by the question of wether and how long you could remain the same person after casting off part of your body or, for that matter, after casting part of your history, part of your personality, part of your life. — Neil LaBute

In a relationship you have to open yourself up. — Neil LaBute

We live in a disposable society. It's easier to throw things out than to fix them. We even give it a name - we call it recycling. — Neil LaBute

Without In The Company of Men, I could still be teaching, so who knows if this would've existed. — Neil LaBute

But even with a character like Cary who is relatively outlandish, at the end of the movie he's in a place where I wouldn't have expected him to be - taking on the responsibility of a woman who is pregnant and who used to be his best friend's wife. — Neil LaBute

I was always looking for the most dramatic emphasis. — Neil LaBute

I'm more than open to hope, but I think men and women have a difficult time dealing with each other and often take the low road. — Neil LaBute

Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there? — Neil LaBute

I was very careful to cast guys who were very good-looking and very fit and who had a certain sense of privilege about them, because with that sense of privilege comes contempt. — Neil LaBute

Everybody has the ability to be manipulative, to be hateful and deceitful. — Neil LaBute

I see bits and pieces of me in all the characters in my films. — Neil LaBute

The future is now. It's time to grow up and be strong. Tomorrow may well be too late. — Neil LaBute

I think the more the actor lets you know what he thinks of the character, the less the audience cares - like a comedian who laughs at his own jokes. — Neil LaBute

Maybe that's what Hell is, in the end. All of your wrongful shit played out there in front of you while you're being pumped from behind by someone you've hurt. That you've screwed over in life. Or worse, worse still...some person who doesn't really love you anymore. No one to ever look at again, make contact with. Just you being fucked as your life splashes out across this big headboard in the Devil's bedroom. Maybe. Even if that's not it, even if Hell is all fire and sulfur and that sort of thing, it couldn't be much worse than that. — Neil LaBute

I have a healthy view of what one can do with art. — Neil LaBute

I wanted to tell a story that interested me as much in the telling as in the watching. — Neil LaBute

I would be more frightened as a writer if people thought my movies were like science fiction. — Neil LaBute

People have perhaps gotten to the point where for the most part movies are a just bit of escape. — Neil LaBute

I didn't choose BYU, I like to think it chose me. — Neil LaBute