Maddy Malhotra Quotes & Sayings

At the end of the day it's not 'what looks good' that matters, it's 'what feels' good. — Maddy Malhotra

You get a job when you have the right qualifications and work experience. Similarly, individuals should be allowed to be parents (considering that parenting is a full time job for at least 16 years) only when they completely understand how life/mind works and have implemented it in their lives. — Maddy Malhotra

Many people can't sing their praise or feel proud of themselves in front of others because they are scared to be labelled as 'arrogant' or 'big-headed'. Social acceptance is more important than self-esteem in the 21st century - and that's not good. — Maddy Malhotra

Others can't give you inner-peace. Your children, spouse, priest or friends can't give it to you. You have to create it yourself. — Maddy Malhotra

Prayer without faith is not answered. — Maddy Malhotra

God is full of love, joy and peace. Every religion has said that God is within us or we are a part of God so why do we think small?
Why do we have limiting beliefs about our success? Why do we not love ourselves? Why do we have fears? Isn't thinking negative/small a sin then? — Maddy Malhotra

Nothing will change if you blame. Rather it will aggravate negative emotions within you. Don't waste your time blaming. — Maddy Malhotra

Praying and then doubting whether it will be heard or manifested is really doubting the Universe's power. — Maddy Malhotra

It's not hard to create self-beliefs that produce a successful and happy life. The main job is to unlearn your limiting beliefs. — Maddy Malhotra

The thoughts and beliefs that you repeat in your mind when you are experiencing a negative situation become your reality. Your subconscious will make sure these limiting thoughts and beliefs are manifested. — Maddy Malhotra

Either you must control your thoughts or the outside forces will control them and be warned that the outside forces usually consist of fears, worries and doubts. — Maddy Malhotra

Your mind can make the darkest day bright and the brightest day dark. — Maddy Malhotra

What you believe your future holds for you impacts your attitude, decisions and success. — Maddy Malhotra

You are the biggest threat to your emotional and physical health if you don't set aside time for relaxation, joy, and personal growth. — Maddy Malhotra

The key to achieving desired results and gaining freedom from unwanted feelings lies within you. — Maddy Malhotra

Your religious book(s) mentioned the power of mind thousands of years ago so WHY do you have to wait until the science proves it in the 21st century? Let others wait to realize/prove the facts not you. — Maddy Malhotra

Most people think the more money, luxury or fame they have, the more successful they are; but I think that the true sign of success depends on how many positive emotions they experience each day. — Maddy Malhotra

You may know how to operate computers. You may know a lot about aliens or robots. You may be a doctor, lawyer, engineer, teacher, specialist ... BUT if you don't know how you operate, why your life is the way it is and how to increase fulfillment, love and peace in your life then all the knowledge and degrees aren't much worth having! — Maddy Malhotra

Running a marathon with a backpack is tough and may hinder you from winning the race. Don't let the baggage from your past - heavy with fear, guilt, and anger - slow you down. — Maddy Malhotra

If you want to test how powerful your mind is, simply start thinking positively and see the results for yourself. — Maddy Malhotra

Nothing will change if you worry. Rather it may aggravate negative emotions within you. Don't waste your time worrying. — Maddy Malhotra

An Oxford degree or owning a successful business or a perfect looking body does NOT guarantee inner-happiness, peace of mind, self-love, and a loving relationship. — Maddy Malhotra

Taking responsibility of your life and knowing the fact that YOU attract people and events in your life is scary, isn't it? — Maddy Malhotra

It's easy and natural to be thankful when your expectations are met. The real test of your faith is when things don't go your way, or when you are in pain. — Maddy Malhotra

Blaming others for your low self-esteem, for your lack of money, for being overweight, or for feeling bad, is NOT going to make your life better. Take responsibility. Work on it. The choice is yours. — Maddy Malhotra

Everyone needs peace of mind, inner-happiness and joyful relationships but most people don't prioritize these. Do you set goals or invest in learning to achieve these?
If you focus only on career, social and financial goals then you will never be fulfilled or fully successful! — Maddy Malhotra

Depression, anger, and sadness are states of mind, and so are happiness, peace, and contentment. You can choose to be in any of these states because it's your mind. — Maddy Malhotra

Intention of seeking attention is an addiction. A vicious cycle which damages your health, finances and relationships. It will NOT improve your self-image, increase your self-worth or fulfill the need of genuine praise. — Maddy Malhotra

It's not physical weight which stops us from moving forward in life. It's the mental baggage we carry all day long which sabotages our success and happiness. — Maddy Malhotra

How you talk to yourself, in your head, determines how you feel about yourself, and determines the actions you take. — Maddy Malhotra

Wisely selecting the words we use to describe the experiences in and of our lives can make us feel better thus impacting our decisions and actions. — Maddy Malhotra

Why don't we learn about the mental health which affects every minute of our lives? ... Where is the school for learning [about] positive mental health? — Maddy Malhotra

In many situations, the only thing you can control is your own response. Changing self-talk from negative to positive is an excellent way to manage that response. Anger destroys your health and relationships. — Maddy Malhotra

Don't let a mediocre person tell you what you are capable of or how your future is going to be. — Maddy Malhotra

Choose your thoughts and beliefs wisely.
Be your own best friend, and not your enemy. — Maddy Malhotra

Limiting beliefs are a virus of the mind. They decline your success and happiness. — Maddy Malhotra

A lot is being done to cure physical self-harm, and yet it's a by-product of mental self-harm! — Maddy Malhotra

Don't believe everything you repeat in your mind! — Maddy Malhotra

They programmed you with the best of intentions but unfortunately their best was mediocrity. — Maddy Malhotra

Problems are inevitable. Staying in control of your emotions is optional. — Maddy Malhotra

EGO stands for Exclude God's Opinion. We think we know everything. Do we really know everything about the working of physical, mental and spiritual world? Not even a tenth! — Maddy Malhotra

Don't let your past pollute your present and disable you from progressing in the future. — Maddy Malhotra

The most influential and frequent voice you hear is your inner-voice. It can work in your favor or against you, depending on what you listen to and act upon. — Maddy Malhotra

With your thoughts, emotions, and beliefs under control, you can have as much as the richest man and be as peaceful as a Buddhist monk . You can experience inner-happiness and euphoric love. — Maddy Malhotra

Everyone has a good heart. It's our mind which gets polluted by so much negativity from the external world. — Maddy Malhotra

We are stuck in the maize that we created. Most people keep complaining about being stuck rather than finding the way out, and they call themselves unlucky! — Maddy Malhotra

Gratitude is the best way to feel inner-Peace and Happiness — Maddy Malhotra

You deserve to be rich. You deserve to live a happy life. You deserve peace of mind. You deserve respect. You deserve loving relationships. And YES, it's all possible. — Maddy Malhotra

A sad truth is that we don't know what we really believe! We don't know how we operate. We don't know what is holding us back. We don't know why we do what we do. — Maddy Malhotra

The logical mind creates fears based on past experiences and predicts a negative future, but the Universe is unpredictable. Therefore, your future can be hundred times better than your past. Either have faith or listen to your fears. Both cannot exist together! — Maddy Malhotra

Adversity is inevitable. Staying positive is optional. — Maddy Malhotra

Science is proving it now and the old spiritual books said it centuries ago that negative thoughts are the primary source of all the internal and external diseases/illnesses! — Maddy Malhotra

Our best friend and our worst enemy reside within us. Unfortunately, most of us access the latter far more often than the former. — Maddy Malhotra

There is no dictionary in the world that includes the words 'skinny' or 'fat' under the definitions of 'beautiful' and 'ugly'. So, focus on being healthy and stop the self-criticism. — Maddy Malhotra

How foolish we are to keep repeating the negative memories from the past in our minds, while rarely thinking of the good times, nor being thankful for what we have. Be good to yourself and repeat and focus on the positive. — Maddy Malhotra

If people could only walk their talk, then this planet would be a positive place to live. — Maddy Malhotra

What are you addicted to: being thankful for your blessings or moaning about your problems? — Maddy Malhotra

The questions we ask ourselves, in our head, determine where we focus, how we think, how we feel, and what we decide and do. — Maddy Malhotra

If you repeat your negative memories in your mind and feel self-pity, then YOU are both the abuser and the victim - not those who wronged you in the past. Your present and future will be happier if you take control of your thoughts. — Maddy Malhotra

Physical nutrition is required to survive but you need to be mentally/emotionally healthy to thrive. — Maddy Malhotra

Most of us are unaware of the words we use on a regular basis. We weren't taught that the words we regularly use to describe our experiences and conditions in life impact and influence our emotional states. — Maddy Malhotra

The quality of the results we get in our lives depends on the quality of the self-beliefs we hold. — Maddy Malhotra

Stop listening to people who don't experience happiness, success, peace, and fulfillment themselves. Don't let them tell you what is right and wrong! — Maddy Malhotra

All the thoughts/images in our minds, and all the emotions connected with our thoughts will sooner or later manifest as our reality. — Maddy Malhotra

Transform from being a fault-finder and blamer to a happiness-finder and appreciator. Positive emotions will increase in your life. — Maddy Malhotra

Like food is to the body, self-talk is to the mind. Don't let any junk thoughts repeat in your head. — Maddy Malhotra

If you doubt what you have asked for in your prayers, then you commit a big sin because you doubt the abilities of God. — Maddy Malhotra

Like beliefs, in most cases, we don't create our values ... others do. — Maddy Malhotra

Don't be a slave to your limiting beliefs. It's your mind, so take control of it today. Stop following the beliefs that don't help you. Create empowering beliefs that will serve you better. — Maddy Malhotra

Self-talk deeply impacts your attitude, decisions and actions hence your success, happiness and self-esteem. — Maddy Malhotra

Prayers from fear, doubt, or worry in your mind don't come true. — Maddy Malhotra

God never said that you will live an average or unfulfilled life. You and the people who programmed your mind 'assumed' your worth, ability and deservingness. You have the same brains and ability like the most successful ones have. Only the circumstances are different and I can assure you that your circumstances are not the worst. — Maddy Malhotra

Don't be enslaved by your negative thoughts. It's your mind, so take control of it - now! — Maddy Malhotra

That which can happen in your future is far better than whatever happened in your past. — Maddy Malhotra

If you think you're worthless, you're not - but your limiting self-beliefs are. Change them. — Maddy Malhotra

You don't know who you are; you just know what they've told you about who you are! — Maddy Malhotra

If each psychology student could help one patient rather than formatting their thesis every semester, then millions of sufferers would benefit each year. — Maddy Malhotra

Your beliefs about your worth, deservingness and ability decides the amount of happiness, success and love in your life. — Maddy Malhotra

Most people ask ineffective questions of themselves, in their head, which trigger lame or negative thoughts and negatively affect their feelings, decisions and results. — Maddy Malhotra

To experience positive/healthy emotions you don't need a big house or a nice car or a managerial job or a million dollar in your bank. — Maddy Malhotra

CHOOSE WISELY'
Birth wasn't your choice,
and neither shall death be.
But the way you live your life
is your choice, buddy. — Maddy Malhotra

The future is listening you, so be aware of what are you are repeating in your mind. — Maddy Malhotra

IT'S MY CHOICE
I get a gift every morning, the gift of a new day,
It's up to me whether I make it bright, joyful or grey.
I can choose to be Happy, Successful and Content,
Or dishonor it with worry, anger or resent. — Maddy Malhotra

Rehashing thoughts of painful events from the past or imagining negative events of the future is self-abuse and can be more destructive than physical harm. — Maddy Malhotra

If you can teach me something for my betterment then you get my respect and gratitude, but if you are here only to criticize, then I have no time or ears for you! — Maddy Malhotra

Are you a clairvoyant? A fortune-teller? If not, why anticipate the worst for yourself? Past does not equal the future, so why not think big and positive? — Maddy Malhotra

If mental abuse was a punishable crime, a lot of parents would be in jail serving a long term. — Maddy Malhotra

We may not be able to change the reality but we can change how our minds see and store it. — Maddy Malhotra

Every morning, you have a choice either to make your day relaxed or stressful.
To be thankful for what you have or to complain about what you don't have.
To count your achievements and celebrate them, or to dwell on the mistakes of your past and feel bad.
To take action to make things better, or
to continue on in mediocrity. — Maddy Malhotra

What you see, say, think, and believe about yourself affects your feelings, decisions, and actions. — Maddy Malhotra

Remind yourself daily that someone somewhere is happy with less than you possess. — Maddy Malhotra

Professional success is only partial success. — Maddy Malhotra

Problems are inevitable. Happiness is optional. — Maddy Malhotra

If you keep running away from yourself then be warned that love, joy, peace and fulfillment will keep running away from you! — Maddy Malhotra

If you praise others you are considered a nice person, but if you praise yourself you are arrogant or nonreligious! What a society, eh? No wonder your self-esteem is low. — Maddy Malhotra

Financial success is only partial success. — Maddy Malhotra

Unknowingly we make our emotional states worse by using and relating high-intensity negative words to our experiences in life. You can use empowering/positive words to change how you think, which will then change your feelings, decisions and results. — Maddy Malhotra

Road accidents, psycho killings, plane crashes abound - we don't know which day will be our last, so why not make today the happiest day and be thankful for all that we have? — Maddy Malhotra

Nothing restricts your success more than your limiting self-beliefs and fears. — Maddy Malhotra

Don't wait to celebrate life until you retire, because you never know the day you will expire. — Maddy Malhotra