John De Ruiter Quotes & Sayings

The best that you can do for your mind is to have no in-between state in your heart. — John De Ruiter

When you really love, that makes you feel unsure in your self, even though it is love that reaches your heart. — John De Ruiter

When you are being true to what you know in your heart, your whole heart becomes clean. — John De Ruiter

When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling the law of containment. — John De Ruiter

When you are in the mundane from what is deeper than your self, you realize the mundane to be more than your self, and your self opens. It opens in its structuring and in its form, enabling you as the form of your self to move in the deeper levels of the mundane — John De Ruiter

What you really are isn't loyal to your self. It won't favor your self. It will turn your self into what you really are. — John De Ruiter

With Nectar in your Mind instead of Thinking, you have Understanding band Wisdom — John De Ruiter

There's no mystery to integrity. There's no mystery to oneness. When there is a core-splitting honesty, right there, awareness knows. — John De Ruiter

When resistance no longer serves you, you'll no longer have it. — John De Ruiter

Realization is more important than understanding — John De Ruiter

Start out identifying what you know are delicacies of being within, tiny little touches of knowledge that has beingness in it, special soft spots of heart. As soon as you identify them, you need to believe them. — John De Ruiter

Let everything that comes your way, help you be new. — John De Ruiter

Where there is movement, there is reach. Reach engenders communion. — John De Ruiter

When you, awareness, are mastered by the deepest that you know the truth of, then you are no longer awareness. You are oneness aware mastering your self and your life. — John De Ruiter

When you're true to your heart, you're infusing your self with meaning. — John De Ruiter

When you're all in, you will know sweet vulnerability. — John De Ruiter

Your real home isn't your patterned self. It isn't your thinking. It isn't your feeling. Your real home is the deepest within that you know the truth of. Your real home, your only home, is direct knowledge. — John De Ruiter

Surrender to what you know and you'll know more. — John De Ruiter

What touches your heart is meaning. — John De Ruiter

If you don't abdicate or misuse your power, pressure takes you into realization. — John De Ruiter

You're not limited to your body as you've known your body. In the deepest levels of you being in your deepest body, there is nowhere that your body is not, and with that body you're able to think. — John De Ruiter

The place of connection or separation in relationship to your own being, the place in your self where this occurs, is in your heart. — John De Ruiter

There is only one real comfort and it's not a feeling. It is the comfort of oneness. — John De Ruiter

Oneness means that as awareness, your relationship with knowing is clean. Then for you to know is for you to be. — John De Ruiter

Depth of feeling and clarity of thought isn't the same as knowing. — John De Ruiter

Everyone is giving something. Everyone is giving what has their heart. What I'm giving you is what has my heart. — John De Ruiter

As what you first are moves in the context of form, you have real reflection within that form, real reflection of what you are, what you are being and what you are doing. The movement in form enables you to comprehend what you are. — John De Ruiter

Where the observer is at first a real goodness realized, later it is a sophisticated power holder. The observer is given power and control that belongs to oneness. When oneness has that power and that control, there is love. — John De Ruiter

When awareness believes what it knows is true, the truth of what awareness really is, moves. That movement is love. — John De Ruiter

As soon as there's pain, you know the gold is just beneath. — John De Ruiter

The source of love isn't in your self. It isn't in your experience. It's in you. — John De Ruiter

The more that you need a relationship, the less you are able to be in a relationship. The more that something on the surface can answer you, the less that you will be really answered when you're in it. — John De Ruiter

The formless cannot be based on the form. The form needs to be based on the formless. — John De Ruiter

While sincerity is to carry the weight of knowledge in the self, it is also to be the lightness of being clean. — John De Ruiter

When you believe what you know, you love. — John De Ruiter

Relationship means you give all of your heart. — John De Ruiter

Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly in it, not exploiting it, not moving away from it, that you are completely present in it, warmed. — John De Ruiter

Whatever you know in your heart, live at the expense of anything else. — John De Ruiter

As soon as you give your heart to something new you will immediately be able to think in a way that is new. — John De Ruiter

The more honest you are, the more quieted you are within. — John De Ruiter

When you are awakened to being a being, even though you're not yet being it, the purpose of you being in a body fundamentally shifts. In that shift, you know within that you are not first any longer about your humanness. Your humanness is included and it's no longer fundamental, altering your sense of reality. — John De Ruiter

The deeper within that you are coming from, the higher the perspective you'll be able to have. — John De Ruiter

Your past determines your future unless you're clearly moving past your self and responding to what you know in your heart. — John De Ruiter

Openness and softness of heart loves what it knows — John De Ruiter

When you are on your deathbed, and you look back into your life, it won't matter to you what you have done with your life. What will matter to you is what you have done all of your life with your heart. — John De Ruiter

The heart that is at rest grows and develops from anything. — John De Ruiter

When you are being what you really are you absolutely flourish in the midst of absolutely everything. — John De Ruiter

Where your life ends, your being doesn't. Where your being ends, you don't. That is what is able to have and move your forms. — John De Ruiter

Where there's self importance, there's only a very little bit of you and that little bit is distorted. It's in a holding pattern that is false to what it knows. That holding pattern forbids you, in that little bit of you, from being the rest of you. — John De Ruiter

It's true for you to soften within, to let your heart open, to let your heart soften. — John De Ruiter

The evolution in each of us isn't separate from each other. — John De Ruiter

The known unseen within becomes structural in what is seen: a being functioning as a self, in person, in this world. — John De Ruiter

Your life has little purpose if you are separate from your own knowledge within. — John De Ruiter

In this there are no options, just response, awareness responding to knowing. All the way in and all the way out. This isn't of the earth - this is of the everything. — John De Ruiter

In a real relationship the two of you are together, meeting without your histories. — John De Ruiter

When you move as openness and softness of heart you're moving in this life within your self in the same way that your being is. When you move as openness and softness of heart, you are all the way into the surface moving and growing, developing as oneness. — John De Ruiter

Everything needs to touch your heart. Everything that touches your heart brings out the deep in you. — John De Ruiter

Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little bit like your own being. — John De Ruiter

Love is not an experience. Love is what you are. — John De Ruiter

Sunny is what you are. Everything else is what you think. — John De Ruiter

You simply cannot trust or refer to your experience of your self to tell you what you are, to tell you the truth within. — John De Ruiter

What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through your heart, into your self. — John De Ruiter

You need to bring your awakening into city life. Bring it into fast-paced complexity where it thrives. — John De Ruiter

For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you've put your self together. It will cost you your patterned self. — John De Ruiter

Put together every little bit of goodness that you have known and you have your being. — John De Ruiter

It isn't the kind of profession that you have that makes you flourish; it's what you are coming from, within, that makes you flourish. Then everything that you step into turns into your garden. — John De Ruiter

Whatever you have awakened to, you belong to. — John De Ruiter

Love doesn't need to be answered, It just quietly and freely gives. — John De Ruiter

When your heart is open and soft, it isn't actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything. — John De Ruiter

Embodying your being is you earning your own being, earning your being in your body. — John De Ruiter

You cannot have a perfect mind. You can have a perfect heart. — John De Ruiter

The more that you are being your ideas, the less human you are. The deeper your realization, being in your heart, the more of your humanness you come into. — John De Ruiter

Where there is humility, there is no story. — John De Ruiter

When a drop of water touches a drop of water there is no holding back - it joins. Water responds to water. Your being responds to what is the same, outside of you, as your own being. — John De Ruiter

What you are is the most subtle delicacy of being. — John De Ruiter

Truth is not a mystery - its greatest secrets are yours to know through simple honesty and surrender to what that honesty reveals. — John De Ruiter

Everyone starts out with a little self, and it costs everything to move past that little self. It costs the life of the little self to be the life within that's deeper than that little self. — John De Ruiter

With your reorientation as awareness, difficulty calls upon your resources - not first the resources that you're familiar with, but the resources of your own being. — John De Ruiter

The unfolding code of what you really are occurs every time you go to sleep. — John De Ruiter

Give others their dignity by opening and softening in your heart to them. — John De Ruiter

In being meaning, you naturally find meaning in everything. — John De Ruiter

When you lay down your life for what you are after you've died, you're clean. — John De Ruiter

When you are relaxed and you hear what you know is the truth, regardless of your experience, you love. You love the truth. You love hearing, knowing, responding to the truth, because all of that is really you. — John De Ruiter

Live finding each other in what you haven't yet found, seeing each other in a way that you haven't yet seen, reaching within to find the more. In the more you find the more of each other. — John De Ruiter

Your being is real and it gets to have everything. It gets to have your preferences, your person, and all of your plans. — John De Ruiter

Once you're facing the direction of the deep within, awareness enters without a thought. — John De Ruiter

Your sexuality is the engine of your humanness. Freed of your self, it is an engine of movement. It isn't there to move your experience, but to move your being into your experience, bringing your being into the physicality of your self. — John De Ruiter

When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self. — John De Ruiter

The cure to your self is that you are not yours. — John De Ruiter

High level womanness occurs and is freed when the filters and the boundaries in your womanness are no longer of use to you. As a woman you then move as your own Being. — John De Ruiter

It doesn't matter how powerfully sexuality, one with your being, moves; it's all profound goodness. You're safe in it. What you know in it, of its depth and its quality, is what you're saying yes to, what you're resting in, what you're warmed in. — John De Ruiter

Awareness, one with knowing, is love. — John De Ruiter

The let-go of the last little bit is the biggest because, in that, there is no return. — John De Ruiter

Where you quietly know within, you have no choice. — John De Ruiter

If you set something free and it comes back to you, that's the beginning of it being yours. — John De Ruiter

With real relationship within, you are as delicateness really listening. — John De Ruiter

Your deeper sense isn't a springboard; it's a landing place. If you draw conclusions too quickly or too slowly, you'll establish your self where it doesn't belong. The fine line between the two is in your own deeper sense. It is in your actual knowing within that deeper sense. — John De Ruiter

Surrender to the deepest level within that you're aware of. — John De Ruiter

The more that you're knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart, and in your self. Deep heart understanding replaces your need and your holding of personal truths. — John De Ruiter

The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and softness of heart, what forms the present and the future is not your past but the reality of your own being. — John De Ruiter