Gaskins Quotes & Sayings

A real relationship is like a river; the deeper it gets the less noise it makes. — Tony Gaskins

Not everyone will have the heart you have. Not everyone will appreciate you and what you do for them. Sometimes it won't be easy having a kind heart in a cruel world. Be prepared. — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

There's about to be a shift in your life. Get ready for your blessings. You've been through enough and a breakthrough is on the way. Don't doubt it, just claim it! — Tony Gaskins

I had to learn how to be faithful. When I was dating around and moving from woman to woman, I did not understand and know how to be faithful. Subsequently, once I entered into marriage, I had to learn how to be with one woman. For me, that was the biggest challenge of all. — Tony Gaskins

Separation before elevation. You have to let some people and things go so you can go to the next level. — Tony Gaskins

Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. Be willing to go without them if you have to. — Tony Gaskins

The closer you get to excellence in your life, the more friends you'll lose. People love you when you are average, because it makes them comfortable. But when you pursue greatness, it makes people uncomfortable. Be prepared to lose some people on your journey. — Tony Gaskins Jr.

I believe you should seek to understand and then be understood. — Tony Gaskins

Don't tell yourself you don't need love just because it hasn't found you yet. — Tony Gaskins

Relationship is like a job but you can't ever retire. When you stop working at it, it stops working. — Tony Gaskins

High school is worse than having to swim through multiple prahana filled lakes- and that's before the truckload of homework. — Taylor Gaskins

The wise learn from the mistakes of others, it's the fool that wants to make their own mistakes. — Tony Gaskins

Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. You're better off alone until the right one comes along. — Tony Gaskins

Love is a learned behavior. If you don't learn how to love yourself someone will teach you how to hate yourself. — Tony Gaskins

To be content does not mean that you don't desire more, it means you're thankful for what you have and patient for what's to come. — Tony Gaskins

You have to get new knowledge and force yourself to really implement what you've learned. You have to set boundaries in place for yourself. The important thing is if you don't know real love, someone will teach youself hate. — Tony Gaskins

I forgive, but I also learn a lesson. I won't hate you, but I'll never get close enough for you to hurt me again. I can't let my forgiveness become foolish. — Tony Gaskins

Evaluate the people in your life; then promote, demote, or terminate. You're the CEO of your life! — Tony Gaskins

God makes originals not carbon copies. It's okay to be inspired by someone, but be bold enough to be yourself. — Tony Gaskins

I started understanding that my strength is my gentleness. A leader isn't a dictator, a leader is a servant. — Tony Gaskins

Invest in yourself first. Expect nothing from no one and be willing to work for everything. — Tony Gaskins

A lot of time we build on lust that becomes very strong. Yet, when that lust wears off we think that love is running out, but really it's the lust that had an expiration date. We have to know what real love is and if we're really in-love. — Tony Gaskins

Instead of trying to see things my way, I try to see things her [wife's] way, and if it honestly makes sense then I will submit to her instead of being a tyrant and a dictator. — Tony Gaskins

If you can't do anything about it then let it go. Don't be a prisoner to things you can't change. — Tony Gaskins

When you love yourself, you'll feel sorry for those that hate you instead of hating them back. — Tony Gaskins

Man up and settle down. The sooner a man can gain control, identify his wife, and be faithful to her, the more successful, and happy you will be in life. Being with one woman in a faithful relationship will cause you to be the happiest version of yourself. — Tony Gaskins

People hate you for 1 of 3 reasons. 1) They hate themselves 2) They want to be you 3) They see you as a threat When you love yourself you are incapable of hating anyone no matter what they've done. — Tony Gaskins

Embrace the struggle and let it make you stronger. It won't last forever. — Tony Gaskins

You want a woman who shares your belief and your faith because that is usually your core. So, you want a woman whom you know can stand on that same foundation you both equally embrace and share. You also want a woman who is ambitious but also knows how to balance it with family. — Tony Gaskins

We forget how to be a whole person all by ourselves. We feel like we are only half a person and that we need someone else to make us whole. That is a lie we tell ourselves and unfortunately, that lie has ruined so many people. We get in a relationship, we get hurt and then we run to someone else to cover up the pain or fill that void in our lives, not realizing that running to the wrong person will just make it worse. — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

I am going on eight years of marriage, and when it comes to communication, I believe you should always communicate in a time of peace. As a general rule, never try to communicate in the heat of the moment. — Tony Gaskins

Negative people need drama like oxygen. Stay positive, it'll take their breath away. — Tony Gaskins

Consistency is the key! If you can't be consistent, then you can't be anything. — Tony Gaskins

I wrote my first book when I was 22 years old. I have a way with words and I love to write. I can write without getting writers block so I knew, it was a gift. — Tony Gaskins

Trust the process.
Your time is coming.
Just do the work
and the results will handle themselves. — Tony Gaskins

You want a woman who, if needed, will be the CEO of the home. In essence, you want a woman who understands the difference between ambition and busyness. You also want a woman who understands that submission is strength, not weakness. Meaning, she understands the importance of your leadership but she is also strong enough not to allow you to run over her. — Tony Gaskins

Ladies: If a man really wants to be with you, you WILL know it! If you have to question it, let it go! — Tony Gaskins

Develop strength and control at an early age and embrace love coupled with a selfless heart. Only then, will you find true peace in your heart and begin the journey to the best version of yourself and the best days of your life. — Tony Gaskins

I believe the media pretty much dictates the way relationships are handled, even in the way we handle ourselves. Abuse, cheating, threesomes, it's inspired by music and television. Irresponsible artists and writers with a hidden agenda, just working against the moral fabric that God intended for us to have. — Tony Gaskins

Two incomplete people can't complete one another. Complete yourself and then let someone else complement you. — Tony Gaskins

You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it! — Tony Gaskins

Growth hurts because change isn't easy, that's why they call it growing pains — Tony Gaskins

Let your pain birth your purpose. Let your mess become your message. Let this be a stepping-stone and not a stumbling block. Change — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

The number one lesson I received from my father is to be responsible for yourself and your family. The responsibility you embrace is working, paying the bills, and coming home EACH night, just as a start. — Tony Gaskins

You can't save a relationship unless both people are equally invested. It takes a joint effort to make it work. One person trying will never be enough. — Tony Gaskins

People don't cheat by chance, they cheat by choice. — Tony Gaskins

The doors will be opened to those who are bold enough to knock. — Tony Gaskins

When you know your worth, no one can dictate your value. — Andria Gaskins

Any man can help make a child, but it takes a special man to help raise a child. He must be selfless. He must be responsible. He must be reliable. He must be a role model. Happy Father's Day to the men who are being real fathers. — Tony Gaskins

Even at your best, someone will have something negative to say. Pursue Greatness anyways! — Tony Gaskins

True Love gives you Peace! It doesn't consume you with anxiety, that's lust! — Tony Gaskins

The best way to dream is with your eyes open and feet moving — Tony Gaskins

Be genuine and authentic, so when a guy starts to catch feelings, it's with the real you and not someone you are pretending to be. — Sheri Gaskins

If you don't build your dream someone will hire you to help build theirs. — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

Don't make excuses! Make changes! — Tony Gaskins

Don't let your values change with society; instead let your values change society. — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

You can't get it all, unless you give it your all. — Tony Gaskins

Love doesn't hurt you. A person that doesn't know how to love hurts you. Don't get it twisted. — Tony Gaskins

Mr. Stegall has birthed a very important book that will help us as a people go to the next level. This book is very important because it's tackling issues that many brush under the rug. Mr. Stegall has proven that he's been given a message that the world should hear and this book is proof of that. Because of his insight and wisdom, this book will reach areas and points that other books around this topic have not. This is definitely a book we need! — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

A woman [shouldn't] have to give a man her body to get his heart. — Tony Gaskins

Winners win in life because they win the battle in their mind first! — Tony Gaskins

You'll get humbled right before you're blessed. It's just a test to make sure you can handle what's next. — Tony Gaskins

Live your own truth and it won't matter how many lies they tell about you. The truth will prove itself. — Tony Gaskins

I just trust God. I don't worry about what tomorrow may bring because I know who's bringing it. — Tony Gaskins