Rebecca Walker Quotes & Sayings

Judgements like "right" and "wrong"; only build barriers and encourage shame within individuals. — Rebecca Walker

I had too much power, I thought. I might consume him out of my own curiosity simply because I could. I could stay or go. He could not. He had too much power, I thought. He could reject me. He could break me in two. — Rebecca Walker

You are my first love." And then, "You will be my only love. — Rebecca Walker

For many of us it seems that to be a feminist in the way that we have seen or understood feminism is to conform to an identity and way of living that doesn't allow for individuality, complexity, or less than perfect personal histories. We fear that the identity will dictate and regulate our lives, instantaneously pitting us against someone, forcing us to choose inflexible and unchanging sides, female against male, black against white, oppressed against oppressor, good against bad. — Rebecca Walker

What the heart desires is medicine to itself. — Rebecca Walker

My mother is very ideologically based, and her ideology is much more important in many ways than her personal relationships. — Rebecca Walker

Sex can look like love if you don't know what love looks like. — Rebecca Walker

One may be nice on the outside but on the inside isnt pretty — Rebecca Walker

When it comes down to it, that's what life is all about: showing up for the people you love, again and again, until you can't show up anymore. — Rebecca Walker

It seems to me, that this, too, is how memory works. What we remember of what was done to us shapes our view, molds us, sets our stance. But what we remember is past, it no longer exists, and yet we hold on to it, live by it, surrender so much control to it. What do we become when we put down the scripts written by history and memory, when each person before us can be seen free of the cultural or personal narrative we've inherited or devised?
When we, ourselves, can taste that freedom. — Rebecca Walker

Take this one in my belly. He (or she) is determined to be here. I can feel the force of his being. It's as if he has something to do here and just wants to arrive and grow up so he can get to it. — Rebecca Walker

Because mothers make us, because they map our emotional terrain before we even know we are capable of having an emotional terrain, they know just where to stick the dynamite. With a few small power plays - a skeptical comment, the withholding of approval or praise - a mother can devastate a daughter. Decades of subtle undermining can stunt a daughter, or so monopolize her energy that she in effect stunts herself. Muted, fearful, riddled with self-doubt, she can remain trapped in daughterhood forever, the one place she feels confident she knows the rules. — Rebecca Walker

Blood strikes back. — Rebecca Walker