Nityananda Das Quotes & Sayings

Whenever you want to know what's wrong or missing in your inner relationship with the Divine, stop, breathe deeply, and observe how is your relationship with the opposite sex. — Nityananda Das

The waves hit the cliff with more intensity than the shore, because the ocean knows the cliff has that masculine intensity which won't complain about her feminine energy. — Nityananda Das

The feminine seeks connection through union, likewise the masculine seeks freedom through disengagement. — Nityananda Das

Relationships prove that God exists. — Nityananda Das

Fear of the unknown makes us slaves of the old. — Nityananda Das

When you tolerate, you resist, and you'll resent. — Nityananda Das

Worried about fitting in, being part of a group, feeling accepted? People gather in groups of similar interests, but these interests are usually based on external preferences and attires.
"We think that if other people like this sport or activity, they'll accept us without an interview or further questions, and we need that because we are afraid of standing naked in front of others, of showing whom we really are underneath the fake smiles and bland expressions of anger and pain: this nakedness is one of the heart and mind.
"It's within these groups that most people find their 'soul-mates' and 'fall in love' with the person they'll never get to know for real.
"Little did you know, you have to keep pretending to be someone else, while your partner is exhausted from having to put on a daily show just to please you. — Nityananda Das

Creating happens in the midst of chaos. — Nityananda Das

Harmony doesn't happen by accident, accidents happen by accident. — Nityananda Das

Be happy, nothing else truly matters. — Nityananda Das

To restrict oneself and somewhat settle under a particular sexual essence is to limit our expression and individual progress. — Nityananda Das

To fully accept someone or something, means that you understand yourself enough to trust your own judgement and intuition, with this understanding full acceptance is inevitable and the next step possible. — Nityananda Das

Monogamous relationships can be based on fear: fear of losing my partner because he might fall in love with another woman, or fear that she may find a more secure man with a deeper purpose than my own to guide and protect her.
"Nevertheless it also can be based on love where our commitment to open and be opened by one intimate partner becomes our way to express love for him or her, our children, friends, and ultimately the whole world and Source. — Nityananda Das

To be able to accept everything that comes our way, even the things we don't want to accept, is the art of Love. However, this acceptance isn't to become conformists or martyrs. The art of accepting has to do with surrendering the need for control; it's ceasing the effort to regulate our environment and manipulate the human beings, as well as the other creatures, within it.
"When we give up our attachment to the outcome and rest our minds in a peaceful state, then we have a better chance to act free from the results. Such a state of surrender could be described as "just be-ing".
"Whatever happens is an indication that at some level we're ready for it, or at least we've got all the tools required in order to become ready, and face any problem or obstacle that may arise along this path. — Nityananda Das

Get love, become love, and share love, or die trying. — Nityananda Das

Where ignorance is bliss, awareness is joy, and self-awareness is orgasmic. — Nityananda Das

In the solitude of meditation, when your conscious mind becomes quiet, your subconscious reveals herself. — Nityananda Das

Instead of waiting for beauty to show up at your doorstep, create so much beauty within you that it will inevitably overflow in all directions. — Nityananda Das

The worst form of equality is to try to make equal things that are their reciprocal opposite complimentary. — Nityananda Das

Beauty is to recognize how full of Love you are. Sensuality is to let some of that Love shine through your body. — Nityananda Das

I hope I am always able to feel my wounds, what other reason would I have to be alive other than to feel? — Nityananda Das

Any kind of hatred towards the opposite sex is a symptom of an unhealthy relationship with God. — Nityananda Das

When you feel the urge to speak, open up and listen.
When you feel the drive to listen, open up and look.
When you feel the desire to look, open up and smell.
When you feel the impel to smell, open up and feel.
When you feel the haste to feel, open up and touch.
When you feel the impulse to touch, open up and speak. — Nityananda Das

Guilt doesn't stop you from doing something. It just stops you from enjoying it. — Nityananda Das

Happiness in marriage comes from taking part in a threesome: you, your intimate partner, and God. — Nityananda Das

Most women do not have a relationship with God, as they are either unwilling to have one or unaware of how to have one, so they choose a human partner."
"It's not about gender or age, nor even social conditioning, religious belief or other external preferences. To surrender as Love - in a feminine way - is to become vulnerable, fragile, soft, sincere, open hearted, and "wound-able" as a choice to the alternative of living miserably inside walls and masks, hiding from pain and Joy. — Nityananda Das

The right relationship will bring out the best in you. If it doesn't, it isn't. — Nityananda Das

Control your desires as if your life depended on them, then your life will do. — Nityananda Das

Love melts. Love heals. Love unites. Love forgives. A Divine Union that goes beyond time and space, that's what I'm looking for - — Nityananda Das

In very rare cases, people will be self-satisfied and content within themselves. More often than not the very same people who choose to live alone are simply in denial after a painful experience or the failure in an intimate relationship. — Nityananda Das

When the current reality creates conflict, distance is often a solution. — Nityananda Das

It takes great courage to accept the constant changes of the emotions within ourselves, and even more audacity to express them whenever they occur and without filter or delay. — Nityananda Das

Do not try to understand love, rather, stand in love and observe what happens around you. — Nityananda Das

The same way he treats animals and other vulnerable individuals is the same way he'll relate to your feminine side. — Nityananda Das

Dare to challenge your current view of your world. — Nityananda Das

Create a sacred space to learn more about your body and mind, go on a date with yourself and explore emotions, sensation, desires, dreams, and accept yourself as you are. By spending some time getting to know yourself better, you will know what you have to offer and, it will be easier to ask for what you want. — Nityananda Das

A formal period in life where there isn't the worry of another person's dramas and insecurities can be of great advantage, especially when used for growing into the full and wholesome beings we intended to be when choosing to come to this material manifestation.
"Even after ending a long relationship or a marriage, it seems normal to have some alone-time to reflect, meditate, explore areas of interest, find meaning in one's suffering and try to placate the void felt in the heart before attempting to enter into new relationships, otherwise the same old mistakes will surely re-emerge.
"Once we're at the stage of life where we can stand our own silence, where we've made peace with our past, where we've accepted and grown from its lessons, and we would like to share our independence without becoming dependent on someone else for love and affection, then we can choose to commit to a two bodied intimate relationship. — Nityananda Das