Tobsha Learner Quotes & Sayings

Believe, my child. Faith is the food of survival. — Tobsha Learner

To be desired by those who are themselves highly desirable is in itself an aphrodisiac. — Tobsha Learner

It seems to me that women are freed from their responsibilities only when they are merry widows or eccentric old spinsters. — Tobsha Learner

I was very fierce and very driven at eighteen. But my basic philosophy I think has stayed the same, I'm still an atheist, I still believe strongly in the power of free will (despite the mysticism in my prose). I don't believe in the notion of a pre-ordained destiny, and I think because of the sudden death of my father at sixteen I learnt then that it is essential to live life to the fullest as it could be snatched away at any second. — Tobsha Learner

Love wasn't a piece of music you could play over and over again with different interpretations. It actually needed to be improvised as you went along. — Tobsha Learner

You must appreciate that love is the last reason for which a man marries. — Tobsha Learner

The novelist is more a marathon runner than long-distance runner and the kind of courage it takes working in such isolation cannot be underestimated. I really respect my fellow writers on this front. — Tobsha Learner

Be bad, and if you can't be bad be worse. — Tobsha Learner

As a reader I like both great characterization and fast moving plots. The challenge is to balance the both and not compromise one for the other. — Tobsha Learner

Memory is a great deceiver: it embroiders until naught is left but the glory and the pleasure. — Tobsha Learner

No, what Great Aunt Winifred was suffering from was the persecution every happily single woman suffers: the predictable social condemnation of her independence and childlessness. Dorothy reminded herself of what she'd learned during a university course on feminist history (with a strong Marxist slant): spinsters are a threat to patriarchy. — Tobsha Learner

Everything flows from God, but we are limited by imposing our human perceptions upon him. Man designs God according to his own image and the image man has of himself is flawed. — Tobsha Learner

This may be the very nature of love, a passion as fickle as the sea, full of certainty when the object of desire is absent, yet dubious when confronted again with the lover's presence. — Tobsha Learner

Living is a hazardous profession. — Tobsha Learner

Starting a new novel is a little like starting a new relationship
you have to be prepared to commit for at least three years and put up with the domestic tedium as well as the emotional highs! — Tobsha Learner

Two bones fell down my chimney and into the bedroom this morning. Hysterical thing to happen to a thriller writer. Murderous ravens perhaps? — Tobsha Learner

Intelligence is power; it is the flame behind the spark of intrigue — Tobsha Learner

Danger is an aphrodisiac. — Tobsha Learner

The worst enemy is one whose doctrines are founded in hate and are thus beyond debate. — Tobsha Learner

We cannot choose the times we live in. Just as, sometimes, we cannot choose whom we love. — Tobsha Learner

Humiliation scars deeper than the lash. — Tobsha Learner

A man who denies his past is a man who truly denies himself a future, for he refuses to know himself, and to deny knowledge of oneself is to stumble through life as handicapped as the blind mute. — Tobsha Learner

Rewrite, rewrite, rewrite, don't be precious about your first draft, it's an architectural blueprint to a whole building, be your own worst critic, confront your weakness and remember it's a craft. — Tobsha Learner

Indeed, you become what you eat. In which case I am an onion. Layered, slightly sour and guaranteed to bring tears to the eyes. — Tobsha Learner

Trust is won not given. — Tobsha Learner

Death strips all men of dignity. — Tobsha Learner

So many of man's actions appear to have no immediate consequence but, concealed, do their work until finally all catches up and forms a complex web of cause and effect. — Tobsha Learner

Information is the mortar that both builds and destroys empires — Tobsha Learner